Ideas with your partener

After a long time in a relationship, people tend to be insecure because they are sort of bored and here comes monotony. No more stories, no more mystery. I heard that from so many people. Let me tell you that you don`t know your partner entirely, you have to create stories! There are so many things that you can do together, but you have to be open. I can prove you that there are things that you don`t know about your boyfriend, wife, fiance, whatever. Pick a personality, love or career test and let your partner to solve it for you and you do the same for him/her and then compare the differences. You will be amazed that even your partner does not see you as you think. TRUST ME! You will be amazed. Moreover, you can improve yourself. Play games together and I don`t mean just online or on a computer, Google can show you millions of games. Let me show you a list with another stuff that you can do with your partner:
-sing
-dance
-meet new people
-work out
-go to shows, all types
-go fishing
-ride bicycles
-travel
-paint
-take pictures
-read something and then talk about it
I guess you got the point. Be creative and you will never get bored with someone as long as your partner is open minded.

Porn affects or helps your relationship?

It is known that women, in general, will search for this topic. There are SO MANY sites and women hope to get an answer. All they found were articles full of  arguments to make women believe the fact that their partners are watching porn is good or not. It is not an option to influence someone through an article. You are the only one who knows the situation with details and why your boyfriend watches porn. If you don`t, start to ask him. And then, try to consider the future and how porn can affect your relationship with the person you love. How can you solve the problem? Considering that it affects your life for real, you have to choose: ask him to stop, accept the idea or break up. It is up to you. And try not to be so emotional, sad or angry when you choose. I can offer you a hint. You can think it is about someone else.
Just so you know, everybody tends to watch it, and if you are sure that your relationship is doing well, you don't need to worry. I believe it can be a problem when he does it obsessively, but once in a while is not such a big deal. Believe it or not, some people watch it because it`s funny and weird. Better ask your partner.

Be safe!